first in a new possible series: songs that take me back to a certain time or place.
No.1: Star Trekkin’ by The Firm.
Not a song I bought myself, although it is now in our household on an 80s compilation CD.
This takes me back to my 6th Form days – being 17 and studying for A Levels.
We had 6th Form “Socials” which were basically an excuse to get drunk and have a laugh. Sometimes they took the form of beach parties, but sometimes they were more formal events.
This song takes me back to one we had in a local hotel. Everyone dressed up for the occaision, so it was almost prom-like.
We had coaches to take us to the hotel, a reasonable meal and then a disco to follow.
I remember Star Trekkin’ being played as one girls strapless dress slipped down, giving everyone an eyeful of her assets.
I’m glad she got drunk quickly, as had it happened later in the evening my memory would be far hazier!
This was also the evening when my legendary lack of confidence caused me a major regret.
I’d had an interest in a certain girl around this time, but was never self-assured enough to ask her out, I merely admired from afar.
The coaches on the way home were either under or oversubscribed with people, depending on who had got off with who, or who wanted to sit with who.
As a result the one I was one had a shortage of seats. I’d bagged myself a window seat though and was feeling very smug.
The object of my affections appeared and didn’t have a seat. She asked me if she could sit on my knee, to which I stuttered agreement.
Now in the cold light of day and applying what little common sense I do possess I should have realised that this meant she liked me.
Why not sit on the knee of someone in an aisle seat, or with a girl friend of hers?
Simple questions which have an obvious answer.
Not for me that night. She sat on my knee all the way home and I made no move on her what so ever, thinking her way out of my league and totally disinterested in me.
I cannot imagine what was going through her mind. Probably every little insecurity she had ever imagined became real to her. Why wasn’t I making a move on her?
Sometimes I can be a complete idiot, and that night was certainly one of them. The shame of it and the shame of such a missed opportunity.
If only I could turn back the clock….